A WOMAN NEEDS TO FEEL HELD - WHAT DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?

I had so much process after Sacred Womb event from my Soul Sister, Xenia.

I also reflected a lot of my own experiences as The Woman and The Man.

I had sat on those questions over the weekend.

How to turn a woman on

How to keep her happy

How to open her sexually

How to help her to surrender

My answer to all of this question is pretty easy - hold her.

There is no MAGIC but simply HOLD HER.

How do you do that?

First,

Learn to hold yourself.

If you can't hold yourself, you will not have the energy to hold her.

Be conscious of your own emotional body and your own needs.

Consciously create a certain level of aliveness, freedom and joy in your own being.

Do what you love, express your truth and desires with honesty, focus on what YOU truly value and don't

compromise on those things that matter to you most.

By being conscious of creating a life that feels joyful, safe and alive for you, you will make it a lot easier to consciously hold a woman with your LOVING, EROTIC PRESENCE.

When your field meets hers in an energetic and/physical embrace,

she will naturally surrender and generate more energy in her body.

Your presence will open her.

As she feels held, she will let go of any tension or unprocessed feelings inside of her (sadness, anger, unworthiness, fear).

Holding a woman in your arms and in your awareness, pulling her in close and touching her with love will turn her on much more than just going straight into more explicit foreplay.

The energetic and physical connection, she will feel from you will also produce oxytocin (the "love & blessing" hormone), opening her heart.

And unlike men whose hearts open when their sexuality is engaged, women's sexuality opens when her heart is engaged.

This present embrace, especially when held for an extended period of time, in and out of the bedroom (sacred space) makes a woman feel like she matters.

Her self-worth and appreciation of you will warm her heart and her Yoni (sacred temple).

It will get her out of her mind and into her body so she can trust her feminine flow and receive more pleasure.