WOMEN & WORK
“You do not need to work like a man to be successful as a woman”.
Many of us feel like we have to uphold this “girlboss” look in order to fit in with the “cool girls” and it starts in high school.
Our modern culture praises women that are “doing it all” and you're not praised in the same way if you're just a stay at home mum.
As a result, many of us push down our feminine desires. We create a masculine shell around us and lie to ourselves that we are happy.
So this is your reminder that we lie in a modern world. Give yourself permission to make up your OWN rules and stop doing what makes you “look good” from the outside.
What’s the truth is …
your inner world reflects the outer world.
your inner relationships reflects the outer relationships.
your career & service (entrepreneur) reflects your lifestyle.
If you are focus on The Hustle and not focus on The Body, is it sustainable?
The Wheel has to be balanced and harmony so you can move forward one destination to another with ease and smooth, along the way you pick up some gifts ding ding ding.
I want you to know this… you get to have the life that you design. You are fully co-create of your reality.
Everything begins with our Desire. This step is fundamental for curating our self-designed life. When we know what we want, it becomes exponentially more likely to occur.
Step 1: Identify What You Want
How do we get to where we want to go if we don't identify what that is?
Our desire feeds our passion, which activates a bio-feedback loop for manifesting our ideals to fruition.
Too often we sideline our desire, placing the needs of others before our own, following what we assumed we “should” do instead of what our heart of hearts most needed. That stops here.
Our desire is how Life communicates with us pointing our shoulders in the direction of our dreams.
Step 2: Address the Obstacles
Once we identify what we want, we address the obstacles getting in our way. We must look at both the internal obstacles held within our mind & the external obstacles in our life & home (heart chambers, body vessel and physical home & relationships)
Step 3: Align Accordingly
When our mind & our home (heart chambers, body vessel and physical home & relationships) communicate our intentions, values & desires, our life is set on a trajectory of our choosing...we know where we're going, we've cleared the obstacles & our internal & external environments support our vision.
The thing that you NEED in order to do it, though, is PERMISSION.
Take the pressure off your shoulders of needing to be the perfect mum/boss/partner/friend etc.
Stop thinking that you have to be the same as your friends.
You don't.
You need to do what feels right for you.
For the vast majority, it's to stop hustling.
BUT that also doesn't mean that you have to stop working (if you don't want to stop).
It doesn't mean that you have to do less.
It just means that you need to give yourself permission to...
DESIGN YOUR OWN LIFE.
Your future self already thanking you as working concurrently with Her + Him together!
I get to ask A LOT AND TOO MANY TIMES.::
How do I do what I do?
You just be exhausted!
Do you sleep?
How do you manage all of these?
Come and join me in SELF-DESIGNED LIFE LAUNCHING PARTY 🎉 and I will run a masterclass and you will get to know how you can also navigate yourself to design your life through feminine energy, masculine structure, heart-based leadership, energetics, and leadership in a way that actually feels doable.
My blend of water 💦 & fire 🔥 with calmness and safety is a blend that will allow your life & home (heart chambers, body vessel and physical home & relationships) feeling aligned, harmony, creARTive and sustainable
and not burn out and stuck. (Cancel clear delete)
Come & Join me:
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